Coaching FAQs
Below are answers to some of the most common questions I receive about coaching. Click a question to expand.
At Sheepdog Leadership Wellness and Coaching, LLC, coaching is a form of servant leadership that involves encouraging and challenging people to pursue their goals and fulfill their potential. Coaching is helping people learn instead of teaching them.
Coaching is not about giving advice or telling people what to do. Coaching is about asking powerful, thought-provoking questions that stimulate fresh thinking, lead to new insights, clarify issues, and challenge clients to explore innovative possibilities.
Counseling deals with negative psychology. It focuses on problems, dealing with conflicts, insecurities, spiritual struggles, and emotional issues such as depression, anxiety, and anger. Counseling fixes what is wrong. If focuses on the causes of problems that arise from the past and on bringing healing and stability. Counseling is usually done by people with expertise in psychology and therapeutic skills.
Coaching deals with positive psychology. It focuses on finding fulfillment, enhanced performance, vision casting, career growth, and reaching one’s dreams and goals. It focuses on the present and future, possibilities, reaching goals, getting unstuck, and turning dreams in to reality. The coach and client are coequals who work together to bring change. Lastly, the best coaching is done by people with training in such coaching skills as listening, questions, and encouraging.
Coaching is not for those who need therapy to overcome disruptive painful influences from the past; it is for relatively well-adjusted people to build vision and move forward towards the future. It does not involve making a diagnosis or giving advice.
Coaching is not counseling, therapy, consulting, mentoring, or a form of discipleship. The coach is not the “expert” and does not give advice. The client is healthy, motivated, creative and resourceful. We have found it critical for clients to understand the forward moving component of coaching. This forward movement is what distinguishes coaching from counseling. For example, if you have experienced past sexual abuse, and you have not been able to move forward in certain areas of your life due to the hurt and pain of this abuse, then counseling would be a better fit for you. Also, if you are currently grieving a loved one, counseling may be a better fit at this time.
A coach is someone trained and devoted to guiding others into increased competence, commitment, and confidence.
Coaches deal with positive psychology, focusing on finding fulfillment, enhanced performance, team building, vision casting, career growth, and reaching one’s goals and dreams. Enables people to reach their goals. Focuses on the present and future, possibilities, reaching goals, getting unstuck, and turning dreams into reality. The coach and client are coequals who work together to bring change. The best coaching is done by people with training in such coaching skills as listening, questions, and encouraging. Coaching stimulates clients to make their own judgments and decisions.
A coach draws out the abilities God has put in someone else, pushing a person to draw from his or her own resources and experiences. Coaches stand alongside the clients who are coached, helping them envision their future directions, guiding as they formulate their goals, and encouraging them to take action steps. A coach assumes that the client is the one best able and most likely to find direction and move forward.
Coaching is about career development, getting unstuck, developing and reaching corporate and personal goals, managing conflict, getting through life transitions, clarifying visions, and building better relationships.
Coaching is a relationship that is most often client-centered and goal-directed. Every coaching session is unique, but usually coaches begin by exploring the issues the person wants to change. The coach helps develop awareness of where the person is at present, including interests, passions, strengths, weaknesses, abilities, values, worldviews, and hopes.
At some time, coaches will help people set goals, and plan ways to reach those goals. When obstacles get in the way, coaches challenge, encourage, and give accountability so the person can push past the obstacles and experience success. A coach can help clients remove blinders, allowing them to see what they may not recognize and give support as the client moves forward.
Ultimately, coaching supports personal growth, self-awareness, and forward movement in alignment with the client’s values and desired outcomes.
Regain traction and break out of stagnation – Get out of ruts, reset discipline, and move forward with purpose.
Build unshakable confidence under pressure – Strengthen decision-making, presence, and self-trust when it matters most.
Clarify mission, vision, and long-term direction – Know where you’re going, why it matters, and how to lead others there.
Unlock full operational and personal potential – Close the gap between current performance and elite capability.
Develop leadership skills that translate on and off duty – Improve communication, influence, accountability, and command presence.
Navigate transitions with discipline and control – Promotions, career changes, retirement, or identity shifts—without losing yourself.
Set clear goals and execute with precision – Turn intent into action through structured planning and follow-through.
Eliminate self-sabotage and destructive internal dialogue – Replace doubt, excuses, and burnout with mental toughness and resilience.
Increase focus, efficiency, and effectiveness – Do more of what matters, less of what doesn’t, and perform at a higher level.
Live and lead with integrity, values, and meaning – Align actions with core values and lead in a way you can stand behind